As I sit down to write this, I come to realization that my heart is full of gratitude for Osada Steve, the teacher who ignited my passion for shibari to a next level and shaped my journey in ways I could never have imagined. My trips to his studio in Tokyo were more than just lessons—they were transformative experiences that sparked a lifelong love for this art and opened my eyes to its depth and philosophy. Today, I want to honor Steve and reflect on the profound impact he’s had on me.
My first visit to Steve’s studio feels like a lifetime ago, yet the memory is as vivid as ever. Walking into that space, I was struck by the calm intensity—a place where ropes, excitement, and creativity intertwined. Steve’s teaching was a revelation. His precision and care in every tie taught me that shibari is not just about technique but about connection, intention, and presence. Over countless sessions, I learned to see ropes as an extension of emotion, a way to tell stories and build bonds.
What I cherished most were our philosophical discussions. Sitting in his studio after a long day of tying, we’d dive into conversations about the history of kinbaku, its cultural roots, and the way it reflects human connection. Steve’s insights were like lanterns lighting the path ahead, helping me understand shibari as a practice that goes beyond the physical. Those precious moments gave me the courage to pursue my own deeper journey with the ropes.
Each trip to Tokyo felt like a pilgrimage. Whether I was refining a tie, exploring a new concept, or simply soaking in the atmosphere of his studio, I left feeling inspired and grounded. Steve’s encouragement gave me the spark to bring my knowledge of shibari to Helsinki, to build Shibari Ropeplay, and to share this art with our community. His belief in me pushed me to grow as a rigger and a performer.
Osada Steve, thank you for the spark, for the foundation of my rope journey, for the countless moments of learning, and for showing me the beauty of shibar and kinbaku. I carry your lessons with me always, and I hope to honor your legacy by sharing this art with the same passion you instilled in me.
